If the word penis offends you, you may want to bypass this article and scroll on down to the other content, because today I want to address a topic that men worry about, are concerned about, and are seemingly fixated on. Since the beginning of time, men have been concerned about their penis size. But today, we're going to focus on whether or not size matters to
women.
The short answer is ... no. 85% of women pulled say they don't care about penis size for the most part. But yes, there are some women that prefer a larger penis. That being said, women actually focus on more important qualities. Men, however, are the ones fixated on their unit size.
But why are men insecure in the first place? One reason men are focused on penis size is due to pornography. Pornography paints an unrealistic picture of both sex and desire because the goal is to sell it-- so everything is made to look over-the-top including huge penises averaging 8 to 9 inches. After watching something like that, viewers are left wondering if what they saw was normal
and if that is what she wants. But what she really wants is far from what is seen in pornography. Further, what is normal in terms of men and their penis size is also far from what is seen in pornography.
“The world average penis size is about 6 inches, but in porn, it’s often over 8 or 9. Funnily enough, I often forget that that’s the case and am almost surprised if I meet a guy with
an average penis size. In porn, even I could potentially feel inadequate, but I very quickly remind myself that the actors are often chosen for their large ‘talents’ more than for their pretty faces or acting skills. I’m not sure how the general public feels about themselves if they only see very hung guys, but I hope they, too, remember that porn is simply a fantasy.” ― Theo Ford, an adult film performer who’s been in the industry for seven
years
Here are the firehose facts -- The average flaccid penis is 3.5 in long, and the average erect penis is 5.2 in long. The study was done in the United Kingdom where they studied 15,000 men and found that 90% are between 4 in to 6 in. Only 5% of men had larger than 6 in. Researchers also found that 85% of women don't care about penis size. Women are, however, more concerned about stability,
compassion, how they’re treated, and communication. In other words, women are not concerned about monster penises -- it's all about the quality of the relationship with their partner.
You would be surprised at the emails that I get from guys. A lot of men are incredibly insecure about the size of their penis --- and they are not simply insecure; they’re super worried about it. My advice is to instead focus on themselves rather than their units. Work on being a better person. Work on being financially stable. Work on being caring, compassionate, and friendly.
Gentlemen, THESE are the characteristics that are MUCH sexier than an impressive
package.
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