During the pandemic, trying to date the good ole fashioned way presents many challenges. Meet somebody in a grocery store's
produce department with a mask on and trying to keep social distance is definitely not easy!
Now, I'm not one of those seduction dating experts, but a large part of what I talk about is helping men with spicy senoritas. And now I am trying to help men continue to date in this time of social distancing and quarantining. This world is crazy (and crazier now more than ever), and there are definitely some dos and don'ts and also some associated potential benefits to online dating. When
done correctly, it's like shooting a fish in a barrel. But if it's not done correctly, online dating can be very lonely and deflating.
I learned many lessons in my life, and one that I continue to use day-in and day-out is: work smarter and not harder. This principle applies to dating as well. Even if we weren't in the middle of a pandemic, why would you want to go to a club or bar compete with all the other guys for that one or two or perhaps three spicy senoritas? These dudes all read the same dumb books, they're all making
the same moves, and they're all practicing the same 'touches' and 'looks'.
I
SAY...
Work smarter, not harder.
Seduce the spicy señorita long before you ever even get to a club or bar.
Seduce her in an environment that you have complete control over and that you're comfortable in.
You don't have to get nervous either. This magical land is known affectionately as online dating.
Before you head out into the online dating world, I have four guiding principles. If you understand these principles, you'll have a much better experience with the whole process.
FIRST -- 50% of the info contained in someone's profile is complete & utter crap. SECOND -- 25% of those who are online dating are 100% bat-shit crazy. THIRD -- nobody looks better than the pictures that they post online. FOURTH -- know that 'athletic & toned' doesn't always mean fit.
Keep these four principles in mind when diving into online dating, and your experiences will be much more in line with your expectations.
Now online dating has some pros and cons. How many times have you mustered up the courage to approach a sexy senorita only to find out that she has a boyfriend? With online dating, you don't have to worry about that. Everybody on the site wanting to meet other people. Rejection hurts, but online dating takes some of that sting away since you won't get some crazy excuses that
they're not your type. What you will get is just no response at all.
Next, online dating is a numbers game. The more emails that you send, the more contacts you will make. The more contacts you make, the better chances you'll get a response.
Further, you can online date any time of the day and any day of the week. And if you want to look for a woman at 2:00 am when everybody else is sleeping, you can. It doesn't matter because there are no restrictions. You can sit in the comfort of your own home and check out profiles.
The last pro is that online dating is also inexpensive in comparison to traditional dating.
HEADS
UP!
A few negative aspects to watch out for relate to profiles. One profile that sucks is where somebody's not active anymore -- you get your hopes up only to find out she ditched online dating some time ago. Also, scam artists set up fake profiles. Look for unbelievably good-looking people who only have one or two pictures that look like
magazine shots. Also, look for profiles with text that contains cryptic language. Another way you'll know that the profile's fake is that they are interested in any and everything: any height, any income, any education, any ethnicity, etc. Even if you're Mother Teresa, you have preferences. Keep your eyes open for these profiles.
Be aware that online dating can get addicting, especially when you start getting responses. Sure, the most challenging aspect is when you're not getting responses. But when you start getting responses, and spicy senoritas show interest in you, respond to you, and give you phone numbers, it's a rush. You feel like you're getting action thrown at you, and you feel like you can conquer the world.
Enjoy but keep it real.
Online dating, when done correctly and executed effectively, is incredible. But if you don't know what you're doing, you're not going to get responses.
Make sure you do it right, so during this time of the pandemic, when going out on a traditional date is challenging (if not impossible), online dating provides an opportunity to engage, socialize, and perhaps meet your spicy senorita.
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On Dec 18th 2019, I started a weight loss journey to take my life back after tons of sports injuries. I never touched drugs, but I loved food, and I got to 480 lbs. As of last night, I had dropped 230 lbs. I've never in my adult life been this small. I graduated high school at 340 lbs; I was 200lbs in 7th grade wearing a 40. I went through a divorce over the summer and just got out of a relationship with a girl that wasn't
ready for something serious. I need a new look cause all my stuff is rather large. Growing up in the country, I've always gone with what you see. Just not sure how classy clothing should fit me because it's been comfy, long-lasting work clothes!
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